What is this Work?

In sessions with me, we find what works for you. I am a certified SomaticaⓇ Sex and Relationship Coach and Dominatrix by Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. I use experiential and somatic methods to go beyond the boundaries of talk therapy to explore authentic connection that creates a safe space for your growth, healing and exploration. I work to make you aware of the emotions you can feel moving through your system so you are more mindful and aware of how you are reacting. By approaching challenging areas and blocks for you, we get directly into the situation itself to rewire your thoughts and patterns with compassionate and constructive support. We dive deep into what is holding you back from what you’re really craving and gives you the skills to connect on deeply intimate and erotic levels that satiate you in new ways.

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FAQ​

Is this confidential?

Absolutely. I have worked with many individuals and partners over the years, including public figures. I understand the need for everyone's high levels of privacy and hold strong to providing a safe space for comfortable healing, growth & exploration. We need a confident space to truly open up in, even and especially if we are in a partnership as well. Our work for you is your knowledge and life and no one else's.

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Do you work with individuals or partners?

Both. I often see partners in joint sessions and individual sessions and all work is confidential.

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We’ll be getting emotionally intimate. That's too vulnerable.

Learning to know yourself deeply and learning how to explore with someone else is the work which is very new for many people to reach such depths. I create a safeas. possible space for you and your growth so you can take your learned skills and apply them to your life and enjoy it outside of our session boundaries. 

 

Are you a Therapist?

I am trained in the Somatica method and as a Domme which fills a niche need of surrogate intimacy work with clients which is outside the boundaries of many therapy practices. I do enjoy working in tandem with you and your therapist to provide the experiential growth. I am not a licensed marriage and family therapist, social worker, psychologist, psychiatrist, physician, nor do I offer medical advice, therapy or psychotherapy.

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Will we have sex? 

Clothes will remain in place and there is no kissing or stimulation to orgasm. Sex starts far before physical contact and just relying on physical skills and techniques is actually skipping over the foundation of skills and knowledge for better sex and satiation. As an intimacy surrogate,  we work together to enhance your emotional and sexual intimacy.  

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Legal Notice: I adhere to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.