Navigating Sex & Relationships Socialized as a Man

Performance anxiety, identity, relationship and interpersonal dynamics, shame or lack of knowledge about sexual turn-ons, stress and self worth can wreak havoc on your ability to feel desirable, flirt, seduce, get hard, stay hard, last and enjoyment in the moment. You are told that you need to fit a certain mold to be considered masculine, be in charge, skillful and ready at any time as well as provide and caretake. This doesn't leave much room for you to be emotionally vulnerable which allows for deeper understanding of yourself in connection and better sex for everyone. I recognize the importance of creating a safe environment to navigate these difficult emotional topics and provide support to experience your emotions deeply.

 

We're often not given tools to navigate talking about our own sexual desires with our partner or given the space to ask each other for our needs or honor our own capacities and set boundaries in the relationship dynamic. Too often we just adopt a one size fits all approach to expectations which is not sustainable and can lead to lack of desire, resentment and eventually burnout. I enjoy working with you to assess dynamics and offer a safe individual space to navigate personal needs and how they fit into your relationship dynamics to help the sustainability of the relationship. 

 

As a an Intimacy Surrogate, I also provide the role of a surrogate partner that will help you navigate skills in connection, flirting, seduction and building intimacy and sexual skills overall. My "relationship lab" technique creates a compassionately constructive space for you to learn about, heal, re-wire and build on your skills so you can feel empowered in your sex life and relationships, leading to more sexual confidence, deeper supportive connections and mind-blowing sex.

 

Ready to stop performing and start connecting?
Let’s explore what your version of confidence, desire, and intimacy looks like—without the pressure to be perfect. Let's start with a call.

 

For more on help with sexual performance, visit Sex Coach for Men.

Read my published articles describing what intimacy coaching work can look like here.
Read my article on why and how I love working with men here.

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