My Coaching Method for Men to Navigate Dating, Consent, Sex & Relationships

You Want to Be Safe to Women—Without Losing the Ability to Show Your Desire. I Help With That.

I do this work because I want to be able to have better connection with straight men because I love them and I want those men to more easily understand how to connect, date and have sex with women who are attracted to them. It means so much to me when a client and I see eye to eye and the walls drop because we're trying to get to the same thing with each other; to feel seen in what we crave, desired, important and safe for the other person to really be themselves around so we all don't have to put on a show to be liked.

You care about being someone women feel safe with—but you don’t want to shut down your desire for them along the way for fear of misinterpreting or overstepping boundaries. Maybe you're feeling stuck. You’re not sure how to flirt without being awkward or crossing lines. You second-guess yourself and maybe even suppress to where your interest is undetectable. You’ve been burned, rejected, or maybe even called out when you weren't aware she wasn't feeling it—and now you’re walking on eggshells.

You're not alone in that. A lot of men are struggling with the same thing right now. As a woman, I am happy to see this awareness of women's safety and comfort surging but I am also seeing how there is no manual given to you on how to do it right. You were likely never taught how to feel confident in your sexuality and emotionally safe to others at the same time. You were told to either be the charming prince in charge or the nice guy who suppresses everything. That binary leaves a lot of you disconnected—from women and from yourselves. Truly.

That’s exactly what I enjoy helping with for years now. I want to help you feel safe to be turned on on a date and enjoy the path of dating , relationships and sex.

In my work, I show up as a practice partner. A compassionate mirror. Someone who is in it with you in the mess of all this—flirting, feeling, navigating seduction, play, tension, and all the stuff that happens before anyone even takes off their clothes. It all starts here and skipping over it isn't helping you.

We explore what you really want—not just what you think you're supposed to want to prove you're “a man.” And we look at what’s been getting in the way: shame, confusion, fear of rejection, pressure to perform, outdated ideas about masculinity, or trauma that never got tended to.

Sometimes you’ll hit a wall. Sometimes you’ll shut down. Sometimes you’ll get turned on and not know what to do with it. Good. That means you’re actually in it.

I’m not here to judge you. I’m here to help you understand yourself and how you're coming across to a woman. To help you get out of your head and into connection. To learn how to read the situation best you can, how to pace desire (this is so important) and how to co-create intimacy. To know when to lead, when to follow, and how to stay present through it all as best we can through practicing it in real time with me so you start to gain the experience and confidence to take it with you into your life. It's an imperfect practice and we all fuck up. It happens. Life goes on.

I’ve worked with so many wonderful men —men who want to be good partners and amazing lovers but never got the tools. I’ve watched so many grow, get turned on by their own confidence, and leave our sessions with a new confidence and clarity about what they bring to the table so they're not trying to mold themselves into what they think they should be to be considered attractive.

This work can be messy. Vulnerable. Intense. Sometimes it’s raw, sometimes it’s really hot, and sometimes it’s about letting go of everything you thought you knew to be so you can finally connect for real.

And let’s be honest: women are tired of doing all the emotional labor. They don’t want to teach you how to be with them. They want you to already know how to listen, to flirt with care, to seduce with consent, to own your desire without making it someone else’s to manage.

I’m here to help you learn that—in a space where you won’t be shamed, where you get real feedback, and where you get to feel what it’s like to actually practice intimacy, emotional safety, and turn-on in real time with me, who can hopefully feel like a new best friend that wants to help you out. If that sounds like the kind of work you're interested in, let’s talk.

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